ACTIONS THAT SPEAK

  • Don’t walk behind your girl; it indicates that you are only sexually attracted to her.
  • Don’t walk ahead of her; it shows you are not proud of her.
  • Your place is rather beside her on the side where she is kept off the road; it makes her feel you are strong enough to protect her.

  • Listen when she speaks; it helps to know you care about her and respect her opinion.
  • Talk to her about issues that are important to you; it makes her feel like she’s a part of your life.
  • Discuss her future with her; it makes her know that you want to be a part of it.
  • Guide her when she needs to make important decisions, it reinforces the fact that you are man enough to be with her.

  • Make casual contacts; it keeps your partner sexually alive and connected to you.
  • Don’t turn your back on her after sex, it show you care more about the physical intimacy of making love.
  • Don’t jump off to the bathroom when you make love; it seem you want to get rid of every trace of her as soon as possible

  • Show interest in the things she is passionate about; it shows you are compatible even with your differences.
  • Show her your world; it’ll make her feel closer to you.
  •  Ask for her opinion on pressing issues; it makes her feel you appreciate her judgement.
  • Introduce her to a couple of friends and families; it makes her feel like a part of you.

Lastly, do all these only if you see a future with her so that wrong messages are not sent or received.

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